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The Follow Through: The Paradox of Choice in Planning

When the Plan Becomes the Problem

On paper, planning should feel empowering. You sketch out the week, choose your priorities, and map the path forward. And yet, many people discover a strange contradiction: the very act of planning leaves them stuck.

I once worked with my client who dedicated every Sunday evening to carefully crafting a flawless schedule — balanced, color-coded, and inspiring. But by midweek, the plan felt like a burden. Unexpected meetings arrived, energy dipped, or priorities shifted. Instead of feeling supported, she felt judged by her own notebook.

It’s not unusual. Planning often creates the illusion of control, but it can also become a clever way of postponing action. Psychologist Barry Schwartz writes about this paradox: when possibilities multiply, paralysis often follows.

Here’s the deeper layer — we don’t just fear making the “wrong” plan. We fear sitting with the discomfort of not knowing what matters most right now.

So planning becomes performance: the search for the perfect structure, instead of the practice of presence.

A Metaphor to Hold

Imagine standing in front of a closet packed with clothes. Some still have tags, some no longer fit, some you love but rarely wear. You open the door, but instead of clarity, you feel heaviness.

Planning can feel the same. The clarity doesn’t arrive before the choice — it shows up after you’ve stepped into it. The “right outfit” for the day is discovered by wearing it, not by endlessly scanning hangers.

This week, notice when you’re lingering in the closet of possibilities. Try closing the door sooner, step forward with what you chose, and let clarity meet you in motion.

Reflection:

Invitation

There are fewer than 90 days left in 2025. That means only 12 weeks to either:

• Look back in January and think, “I had good intentions, but nothing really changed…”
• Or step into 2026 already carrying momentum — focused, consistent, and lighter.

Most people overestimate what they’ll do “someday” and underestimate what a few weeks of structured accountability can actually unlock. That gap is where progress gets lost.

This is why I’ve opened a limited set of year-end Productivity & Accountability Coaching spots: short, focused sessions designed to help you finish strong without adding more systems or overwhelm.

If you start now, you’ll already feel the shift before the holidays — and enter the new year with proof that you can follow through.

👉 Just hit reply with “I’m Interested” and I’ll share the details with you directly.

Curiosity Corner

Quote: “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response.” — Viktor Frankl

Micro-experiment: The next time you find yourself rewriting a plan, pause. Do the first thing on it instead.

Research nugget: Studies on “decision fatigue” (Baumeister, 2000s) show that too many small choices drain willpower — clarity often comes from fewer, not more, decisions.

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